The other night, we had a scare. I lost my cool. Okay, I don't have any cool. I've never been accused of being cool or having cool. I lost my temper; which sounds like a silly expression because I didn't lose it per say, I projected it (and all of its wrath) onto my family. If you aren't aware -- I'm pleasant most of the time, but when my temper rears it's ugly head, I'm not-so-pleasant. Seriously. This is one of my two, very large flaws that I work on daily. The other is my lack of patience.
My one year old Evan, fell out of his toddler-sized recliner on his head. I didn't have his safety bubble on. I scooped him up, starting rocking him in the chair & out comes everything he had for dinner. Oh no, all I could think was concussion. I immediately called the on-call doctor and he's fine. A trip to the doctor the next morning to ease my mind & all is well. He's well on his way to many more falls & I pray that we all make it through them calmly & safely.
In the heat of the a situation, I said shut-up to my husband and my five year old. That is the first time I have ever done that & I pray it is the last. I discourage the word, along with stupid & dumb. I also discourage name-calling. I'm not trying to raise a bully.
After all was calm, Evan was fine, I had cleaned up both of us, the furniture & the carpet, I apologized. My five year old, Owen says, "Mommy, you tell me not to say that word because it's not nice". I told him he was exactly right and that I was so sorry and I will not do it again and I never should have done it to begin with. You know what? As the words were coming out of my mouth, I knew better. I said it anyway.
I'm grateful that even though I fail Him daily, He's always there for me with His unwavering mercy.
I will lead the blind by ways they have not known, along unfamiliar paths I will guide them; I will turn the darkness into light before them and make the rough places smooth. These are the things I will do; I will not forsake them. (Isaiah 42:16 NIV)
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